It’s a very special feeling, when someone makes you feel special. Isn’t it? Whether you are a guy or a girl, you deserve to be treated well & feel special. But daily chores in life make us so busy that we forget our worthiness and to feel special. Instead that, we often want to make our special one feel special. Don’t you?
You are here, reading this article because you intend to make that one significant girl feel extraordinarily special! It is a great initiative and it does not take much to make a girl feel acknowledged, appreciated and loved.
In times where each one of us gets busy in our own lives, relationships take a back seat as a result of sheer negligence. Taking certain steps like making your significant other feel special is a great way for giving path to wondrous other outcomes for the relationship.
Most people assume that making your woman feel special once a day, say on a birthday or an anniversary or just on valentine is a fabulous time for expressing your affection. But less do they realize that it’s the small things that truly make a woman feel special. It is all about showing her how you appreciate her efforts and love her in your own unique ways.
Let’s discuss how to make your girl feel special, in simple ways:
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Leave her Sweet Reminders
Short notes and loving reminders throughout her day are a great way of expressing your gratitude towards her and making her feel special. Girls love surprises and would not be anticipating to find cute little notes amongst their things which makes it even more special.
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Talk to Her About Her Day
Everyone has a rough day and so would your girl. She would really appreciate it if you would sit with her and ask her how her day was, what bothered her, what excited her and so on and so forth.
Not only does this open up a free flow of communication but it will also remind her that she will always have a friend in you to come back to after a tiring day. This is a great way of making her feel special as well as showing your support.
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Surprise Her
Surprises are the new norm. Make an attempt at knowing her likes and dislikes and surprise her with things she enjoys doing. Amidst our busy schedules we all forget to have some fun.
It would be a great idea for you to surprise her with dinner at her favorite restaurant or a movie night set up at home where she can feel relaxed. These are small steps but she would most certainly feel cared for and not to forget, SPECIAL!
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Make Her a Part of Your Life
Let her know how important she is to you, not just with words but with your actions. Keep her included in your life, talk to her about what adds meaning to your life, what is most valuable to you, etc. Such conversations make the other person feel valued and trusted.
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Be Vulnerable
Girls appreciate a man who can be vulnerable and empathetic around them. In a long-term relationship this could make you more trustworthy. Just be yourself around her with all your strengths and weaknesses and let her be a part of your emotional journey. Be honest with her about what scares you, what excites you, what motivates you, etc.
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Support Her in Her Accomplishments and Failures
It is important to be a cheerleader to your significant other when she is achieving her milestones but it is even more important to be her friend and her confidante when failure comes her way so that she knows that she has someone to fall back upon for some affection, words of encouragement and support.
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Treat Her with Respect
Ups and downs are a part of life but your woman deserves to be treated with love, dignity and respect even in your worst times. Nothing makes a girl feel more special than when her man is able to keep her dignity intact in trying circumstances. Be there for her, show her that she is respected for who she is with all her flaws and that no matter what her dignity will always be maintained.
Conclusion
Yes, girls do love flowers, chocolates and little presents and you may, of course, resort to that to always make your girl feel special but as we mentioned in the beginning of this article, it is the small things that add up.
The non-superficial things and the non-materialistic attempts which turn out to be a more effective way to make your girl feel special not just occasionally but for everyday of her life.
